Fasham family

As I have put in the family details of other Great Grandparents I am now going to do that of my Great Grandmother, Martha Fasham who married Thomas Pysden. Fortunately they were a Margate family and their records were on those of  St John’s church. Margate, so I was able to work them back until I found the earliest member who was:

FIRST GENERATION     My 9* Great Grandparents

RICHARD FASHAM AND SARAH HOLT

Richard was born about 1580 and married Sarah Holt. They had one son I could find:

Walter in 1610 baptised in Margate

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SECOND GENERATION

Walter Fasham & Elizabeth Dadds

Walter, born in 1610, married Elizabeth Dadds on 5th June 1631. She was born in  Margate and died in 1656.  Walter then remarried Katherine Brown who died in 1669. Walter and Elizabeth had the following four children:

1/ John born in 1632

2/ Robert in 1633 who married a Mary

3/ Mary born in 1637

4/ Elizabeth in 1639

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THIRD GENERATION

John Fasham and Elizabeth Marie Dericke

John -born 1632- married Elizabeth Marie Dericke on 12th October 1654 in St John the Baptist church, Margate. Elizabeth was born in in 1634 in Margate and died in 1698. They had 4 children as follows:

1/ James born in 1655 in Marate and married Mary Lee on 11th September 1679 in St John the Baptist. Mary was born 1658

2/ John born 1657 and died  in 1670 aged 13

3/ Thomas born in 1660. Thomas married Thomasine Alfery on 21 November 1689 in St Johns. Thomasine was born in 1660 in Margate and died in 1730

4/ Robert born 1663/4 and died in 1736. He married Mary Daniels on 11th January 1688 in St Nicholas at Wade. Mary died in 1731

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Fourth generation

Roberth Fasham and Mary Daniels

Robert- born in 1663/4 married Mary Daniels on 11 January 1688 and died in 1736 aged 62  or 63. Robert and Mary had seven children that I have been able to find.

1/   John born in 1689 and died in 1689

2/   Mary bdorn in 1691

3/   James born in 1692 and married Mary Hiles

4/   Robert born in 1695 and died of dropsy in 1739 aged 44. Robert married Mary Grant on 27th December 1724 in Margate. Mary was born aboaut 1700

5/   Mary born in 1697 and died in 1702

6/   Susannah in 1702

7/  Joh in 1703 and died in 1737 aged 34

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FIFTH GENERATION

JAMES FASHAM & MARY HILES

James. born 1692 in Margate, married Mary Hiles on 4th November 1719 in St John The Baptist, Margate. Mary born in 1691 was aged 28. They had six children that I could find:

1/   Mary in 1721

2/  Robert in 1722

3/  James in 1724

4/  John in 1728 and who died in 1728

5/  John in 1730

6/  David born 1732 abd died ub 1773. David married Susanna Pears on 25th September 1763. David and Susana had four children:

  • Rebecca in 1765
  • Susanna in 1767
  • Mary in 1769 and who died the same year
  • Mary in 1770

David in 1773 and who died in 1774

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SIXTH GENERATION

JOHN FASHAM AND MARY CHANDLER

John married Mary Chandler  on 17th October 1756. Mary died in 1765 and he then married Mary Price on 5th November 1766 in St John The Baptist. This Mary was born in 1740 and died in 1803. John had three childrend with Mary Chandler

1/  Stephen born in 1756

2/  Mary born in 1760 and died in 1770

3/  John born  in 1762 and died in 1770 so they lost two children in the same year

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SEVENTH GENERATIONorn in

STEPHEN FASHAM & ELIZABETH RALPH

Stephen, born in 1758, married Elizabeth Ralph on 17th November 1782 in St John the Baptist, Margate and dthey had the following seven children:

1/  John born in 1784 and who married Mary Ann Bowles in St Clements Church, Sandwich on 17th Octobe 1808. John and Mary had 5 children

John in 1812 in Sandwich, William in 1815 in Eastry, George   in 1817 in Sandwich, Mary in 1820 in Margate and Thomas in 1823 in Margate and who emigraged to Australia with his wife Emma Easter

2/ Sarah born in 1786

3/  Daniel born in 1788

4/  Stephen in 1790 who married Sophia Cowell on 13 October 1813 in St John the Baptist, and who died on 30 August 1854 aged 64

5/  Wiliam born in 1793

6/  James born in 1799

7/  George born in 1807 and who married Sarah Hammond Heritage on 7th April 1838 in St Peters Church, Broadstairs

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EIGHTH GENERATION

STEPHEN FASHAM AND SOPHIA COWELL

Stephen was born in 1790 in Margate and married Sophia Cowell on 13th October 1813 at the age of 23, He died on 30 August 1854 aged 64. They had seven children:

1/  Sarah in 1814

2/  Elizabeth in 1815

3/ Daniel Stephen in 1817 in New Romney, Kent in 1817

4/  Stephen in 1820 who married Ann Constable Danton in JUne 1844

5/  Mary baptised in 1825

6/  Martha   baptised in 1825 (My Great Great Grandmother ) who married Thomas Pysden on 30th December 1847 at St John the Baptist

7/  Sophia in 1832 who married Edward Philpott

 


NINTH GENERATION

 MARTHA FASHAM and Thomas Pysden

Martha, born in 1825 married Thomas Pysden on 30th December 1847 in St John the Baptist. I have a copy of their marriage certificate. The marriage was witnessed by Martha’s sisterand and an Edward Johnson who were both illiterate and signed with a X. Martha and Mary  were baptised together but I cannot tell if they were twins or as their had been five years since the previous child, their parents had just not got round to having them baptised.Martha died in 1898 in Margate and Thomas in 1905 in Thanet. They had the following children:

1/  Thomas in 1849 and who married Alice Sarah Morrison in 1871 in St Lawrence Church, Ramsgate and was the father of my Grandmother, Alice Florence Mockett nee Pysden

2/ Martha in 1851

3/  Sarah in 1853

4/  Edward in 1856

5/  Emma in 1859, Emma married William Hughes in 1879 and died in 1956

6/  George in 1862 who married Emma Jane Savin in 1880, died in 1947 and had a son George Savin Pysden who was killed in France in WW1.

 

 

 

 

 

Pysden Family

While researching the Pysden family I managed to get in touch with Chris Pysden in the USA who had done a lot of research into the Pysden family. He had a website about them and allowed me to see it. This is some of what he says:

THE STORY SO FAR

by Chris Pysden

The Danes landed in Kent around 800 AD. They established the eastern capital of their kingdom at the village named Eastry today. They also landed in Dorset and Yorkshire and Winchester became the western capital of their kingdom.

Recent DNA testing on a large scale shows that the Danes should not be called Vikings, as the adventurers originated from Norway and Sweden.

History shows that most of the fighting before the arrival of William the Conqueror in 1066 AD was away from Kent and it is a fair assumption that the Kentish Danes were mainly peaceful and integrated with the locals well. That is not to say that they did not take the lion’s share of the assets there, claiming large areas of land in their own right. 

The tribe we originate from was called the Pysingae, How many in number decided to settle here after their centuries of pillaging Kent we do not know. 

Presumably they thought that conditions here were better than in Denmark (then called Jutland) and decided that the trip over the sea was not worth making any more. So some of them stayed. Pysingae means “short fat people” in olden English. The Doomsday book of 1069 mentions some landholding near Eastry but it is my guess that the bulk of the tribe settled just south west of Canterbury on the Chilham Downs with some others of the family settling near the capital of Eastry. I cannot prove it but there are two indications that lead me to this.

In the 17th century, some still prospered and became Mayors of their towns, but by then the majority were agricultural labourers or the like on the verge of poverty. The downward trend continued throughout the 18th & 19th centuries and most of the family were on the poverty line. Two things then happened. Those few with enterprise left the UK for what was then called the Dominians and with hard work, all seem to have made a good job of establishing the family abroad. In the UK a piece of law was enacted making it obligatory for children to attend school, firstly to 10 years old, then 12, then 14 and now 16. This produced a mainly literate population some able to take apprenticeships and achieve skills that got them and their families off the bottom rung in life. 

The spelling of the surname changes a lot over the years and has been spelled as Pissinge, Pising, Pysinge, Pisinge one has to allow for the changes as it was written as it sounded.


the first generation
THOMAS PYSINGE AND JONE

My 12 Great’s Grandparents

Thomas Pysinge was married to Jone and he died in January 1559 in Canterbury

Thomas and Jone had the following four children:-

1/ Richard Pysinge who married Johan on 3rd July 1569 in Petham, nr Canterbury. Richard died in 1589 after having six children

Richard and Johan who had the following six  children:-

  • Tomsine Pysinge born in 1570 in Petham and who died the same year
  • Thomas Pysinge born in 1571 in Petham
  • Robert Pysinge born in 1574 in Petham
  • Marye Pysinge forn in 1579 in Petham
  • Susana Pysinge born in 1582
  • Christopher Pysinge born in 1585. He married Rebecca Whineyard on 26 January 1610 in St Paul’s Canterbury
  • 2/  Elizabeth Pysinge
  • 3/  A son Augustine Pysinge who married Silvester. Augustine died in February 1601 in Canterbury, Sylvester died in 1573 in Petham,
  • 4/ Henry Pysinge

Second Generation of Pysinge
Augustine and Silvester Pysinge

My 11 Great’s Grandparents

Augustine and Silvester had five children

  • A daughter Rachel born 1560, baptised 22nd March 1560 who died and was buried on 8th April 1560
  • A son, Richard, born in 1563 in Petham. Richard married Mary Baker on 23rd December  in St Paul’s Canterbury. Richard died in 1607 aged 44
  • A daughter Elizabeth a twin with:
  • Johan Pisinge both born 1564 and baptised on 30th May 1564 but Johan died and was buried on 13th June 1564.
  • A son Thomas born in 1565 and who married Jane and had a son Isaack who was born in 1605  and died a year later. Jane died in 1608

Augustine died 1601 or 1602 and I have found a will proven in 1602 for Augustine using Henry (his brother) for the probate. Silvester died and was buried in Petham on 9th December 1573


The Third Generation
Richard Pysinge and Mary Baker

My 10 Great’s Grandparents

Richard, son of Augustine and Silvester, was born in 1563 in Petham. He married Mary Baker on 23rd December 1588 in St Paul’s Canterbury, They had  eight children

  • Elizabeth Pissinge born in 1589 in Barham, Kent. Elizabeth died in 1595 aged 6
  • Christopher who was born in 1591 in Canterbury
  • Marye  who was born in 1593 and who died in 1595 being buried on 2nd June 1595 in Canterbury.
  • Austine Pysinge was born in 1594 and baptised in Lower Hardres Church, Canterbury
  • Jonas Pysing born in 1596 . Jonas married Annie Thompson on 17th December 1631 at St Andrew’s Church, Canterbury
  • Ann Pissinge who died in 1601
  • Stephen Pissinge who ws born in 1603 in Canterbury,
  • Richard Pissinge was born in 1604 near Canterbury. He married Mary Gibson on 14th May 1627 in St Margaret’s Church, Canterbury, Richarde died in 1675 aged 71 and Mary died in 1636 only 9 years after they married.
  • Ann who died in 1601
  • Thomas

Fourth generation
richard pysinge & mary gibson

My 9 Great Grandparents

Richard was born in 1604 and married Mary Gibson in St Margaret’s Church, Canterbury 14th May 1627 when he was aged 23, They had three children that I have been able to find:

  •  Katheryn Pissinge who was born in 1631 and who married Peter Johnson on 26th September 1653 at St Paul’s Canterbury
  • Thomas Pissinge born 1633 and who married Ann.  Thomas died in 1685 and Ann died in 1636
  • Richard Pising born in 1636 and marrying Ann Sumner

the fifth generation
thomas pising & Ann
My 8 Greats Grandparents

Thomas who was born in 1633 in Canterbury, married Ann. He died in 1685 and Ann died in 1694. They had the following nine children:-

  • Joanna Pising who married Robert Atwells on 4th may 1670 at St Paul’s Church, Canterbury
  • Mary Pising who married Thomas Blundell on 3rd January 1682 also in St Paul’s
  • William Pising who was born in 1665 . William married Ann Osmore on 26th April in St Paul’s church, Canterbury
  • Another son, Thomas born in 1667. He married Susanna (Anne) Kitchen on 30th November 1693 in St Paul’s and he died in1732 whilst his wife died in 1746. Thomas and Anne had two sons, Richard in 1700 and Thomas in 1702
  • John Pising born in 1669. He married Elizabeth Sutton on 16th March 1695   in St Mary Magdalen , Canterbury. John died in 1716 aged 47 and Elizabeth died in 1742. John and Elizabeth had a son called John who was born in 1696 and who died in 1704.
  • Richard Pising born in 1674,  married Elizabeth Woodgate on 16th January in St Paul’s Canterbury. Richard died in 1741 aged 67 and Elizabeth died in 1752. Richard and Elizabeth had ten children.
  • Ann Pysing was born in 1676 and married John Friend on 2nd November at St Paul’s Canterbury
  • Henry Pysing born in 1677. He died in 1736 aged 59 having married Pleasant Gammon on 21st April 1709
  • Margery Pising who married John Dress on 13th November 1684 in St Paul’s

Thomas and Ann appear to have done well having given birth to nine children who all survived to adulthood and married.  Most unusual for those times.


the 6th generation
Richard PIsing and elizabeth woodgate
My 7 Greats Grandparents

Richard,  born in 1674 married Elizabeth Woodgate on on 16th January 1695 at the age of 21.

They had ten children with the first one dying as a child.

  • Anne Pising ws born in 1696 and died before 1703
  • Thomas Pising was born in Petham in 1698. He married Ann Browning on 28th September 1718 in Chislet, Kent and died in 1758
  • John Pysing who was born in 1701 and died the same year.
  • John Pysing wo was born in 1702 and died in 1704
  • Ann Pising born in 1703
  • Richard Pysing born in 1705
  • Elizabeth Pysing born in 1707 and who died in 1741
  • Richard Pysing born in 1712 and who married Elizabeth Jarman on 18th March 1735 in Fordwich in Kent
  • John Pysing born in 1714 in Chislet
  • Ann Pysing born in 1717 and who died in 1719

Note: It was very common to call the next child by the same christian name as one who had earlier died as in the cases of John and Ann


The 7th Generation
Thomas Pysing and Ann Browning
My 6 Greats Grandparents

Thomas  was born in 1698 in Petham outside Canterbury and he married Ann Browning on 28th September 1718 in Chislet, Kent. Thomas died in 1758 at the age of 60. He and Ann had seven children.

  • A daughter, Ann was born in 1737 and died in Fordwich in 1810 at the age of 73
  • Elizabeth Pysing born in 1739 and who died a year later.
  • A son, John Pysing bon in Fordwich in 1741 and who also died a year later
  • Richard Pysing who was born in 1743 and baptised on 19th June 1743 in Fordwich. Richard married Mary Quested on 21st November 1770 in Patrixbourne and who died in 1812.
  • Thomas Pysing born on 1st September 1744 in Fordwich. Thomas married ann Hadaway on 12th October 1773 in Sturry
  • Elizabeth Pysing who was born and died in 1748
  • William Pysing, born in 1753 and married to Mary Ratcliff on 30th November 1779.

The seventh generation
richard pysing and mary quested
my 5 greats grandparents

Richard was born in 1743 in Fordwich to Thomas and Ann and baptised there on 19th June 1743. He married Mary Quested  on 21st November 1770 when he was aged 27. They went on to have seven children who were:

  • Thomas Pysing was born in Bekesbourne in 1771
  • John Pysing who was born in 1775 and married Sarah Gibbs on 28th October 1799 in Bekesbourne,
  • Daniel Pysing  baptised on 12th March 1780 in Bekesbourne
  • James Pysden born 1782 in Bekesbourne, who married Elizabeth Austin  who was born in 1785 and who died in 1873 aged 88 (a great age in those days)
  • Robert Pysing born in 1785 in Bekesbourne
  • Elizabeth Pysing born in 1787 in Bekesbourne
  • Richard Pysing born in Bekesbourne

the ninth generation
John pysing and sarah gibbs
My 4 Greats Grandparents

John was born in Bekesbourne in 1775 and married Sarah Gibbs there on 28th October 1799 when he was aged 24. They had three children that I could find:

  • William Pysing who was born in Bekesbourne in 1799 and married Ann
  • James Pysing who was born in 1801 and must have died soon after
  • James Pysing born in 1804 in Sturry, Kent

The tenth generation
william pysing and ann
My Great, Great,Great Grandparents

William, born in 1799 and baptised on 15th December 1799 at Bekesbourne,  married Ann (I have not been able to find her surname). William worked on Flete Farm, Margate, according to the census forms of 1851 and 1861, when he would have been aged 52 and 62 respectively. They had two sons that I have found”

  • Thomas Pysden (my Great Great Grandfather) born in 1827 in St Peters, Broadstairs, Kent. Thomas married Martha Fasham on 30th December 1847 at St John’s Church, Margate

                             THOMAS PYSDEN BIRTH RECORD IN 1827

  • Edward Pysden who was born in St Peters, Broadstairs in 1830. Edward married Sarah Browning Hewitt in St Peters Church on 28th August 1852. He became a  blacksmith and was the St Peters village smith. In fact I have found that the smithy which was there until the middle 20th century was up a small alley way beside the house where Edward and Sarah lived in 12 Church Street, St Peters. I see this house every time I come out from playing bridge in the church hall.
Edward Pysden’s home when he was the St Peters blacksmith. The smithy was up the alley on the left of the house until the mid 1900’s

 

           This is a postcard drawing of the old forge

Edward died in 1873 and is buried in St Peters churchyard, Sarah died in 1916 in Medway, Kent.


the eleventh generation
        Thomas Pysden && Martha Fasham
My Great, Great Grandparents

Thomas was born in St Peters, Broadstairs in 1827 and married Martha Fasham on 30th December 1847.

 Martha was the daughter of Stephen Fasham and Sophia Cowell and was born in 1825 in Margate. I have traced the Fasham family  back to Walter Fasham born in Margate around 1580, thanks to someone called Barry White who, fortunately at tje time that I was doing the research, had posted all the records  of St John’s Church, Margate online. It now seems to have been taken down.

In the 1851 census Thomas is working as an agricultural labourer on Flete Farm (with his father) and living with his parents on the farm. By the time of the 1861 census he is living at 9 Sparrow Castle, Margate and working as a bricklayers labourer. In 1871 he is living at 10 Sparrow Castle but has moved to 66 Milton Road, Margate by 1881. Sadly by 1901 he is in the Workhouse at Minster. He died in 1905 but I am unable to find out if he was still in the workhouse.

Thomas and Martha had 6 children:

  • Thomas Pysden – My Great Grandfather- who was born in 1849 and married Alice Sarah Morrison in 1871
  • A daughter, Martha, in 1851, who became a laundress.
  • A daughter, Sarah, in 1853 who also became a laundress
  • A son Edward, born in 1856 and who in 1871 was a blacksmith in Margate
  • A third daughter, Emma, born in 1859
  • A third son, George, who was born in 1871

Thomas & Alice Sarah Pysden- my paternal Great Grandparents

Thomas & Alice Sarah Pysden- my paternal Great Grandparents

The twelth generation of pysdens

Thomas Pysden

1849 -1899

Thomas was born in Margate, Kent to Thomas Pysden (1827-1905) an agricultural and a bricklayers labourer and his wife Martha nee Fasham (1825-1898) and baptised at St John the Baptist church. Martha was the daughter of Stephen Fasham and Sophia Cowell from Margate.

Thomas was the eldest of five children being followed by:

  • Martha Pysden in 1851 who became a launderess
  • Sarah in 1853 who also became a launderess
  • Edward in 1856 who became a blacksmith like his father
  • Emma (1859-1956) who married William T Hughes,
  • George (1862-1947). George married Emma Jane Savin and had four children the youngest of whom was George Ernest Savin who died at the age of 20 in WW1

Thomas married Alice Sarah Morrison at St Lawrence Church in 1871 and they had ten children with their first child being my Grandmother, Alice Florence Pysden who married George William Mockett.

Alice was born in 1872 in Ramsgate and followed by:

  • Emma in 1873
  • Jane in 1878
  • Julia in 1880
  • Thomas in 1881
  • George in 1884
  • Ellen in 1885
  • Jesse in 1887
  • William in 1890
  • Walter in 1892

I was very lucky when doing the research into the Margate Pysdens as so many went to St John’s church and someone had put all the church records online. As a result I was able to trace all the branches of the family back to the 1600’s. Unfortunately the site is now removed.

All the children except for Alice were born in Deal. In the 1881 census Thomas is a boarder in Walmer but I was unable to find out where his wife was on that day. Ten years later in 1891 they are all living at 4 Railway Terrace and Thomas is a blacksmith, Emma is working as a general servant and Jane as a nurse girl.

Thomas died in 1899 at 4 Railway Terrace, Deal leaving his wife the sum of £48 9s which today would be worth about £5700.

I have traced the Pysden family back to  Thomas Pysinge who died in Canterbury in 1559 as someone kindly put all the church records online for St John’s Church helping me trace a long way back and then I went to the Cathedral archive centre. However I did get in touch with Chris Pysden  in America  who also was tracing the family and he sent me records which trace the family back to the Danes who invaded England. The name was originally Pysinge which meant ‘short, fat people’.  I have not tried to trace them that far.

Being a blacksmith seemed to run in that family and I found that Thomas’ brother Edward was the village blacksmith in St Peters living at 12 Church Street which is still there. I see it each time I come out of my bridge sessions. There is a pathway at the side of the house and the smithy was up there until mid 1900″s


Alice Sarah Pysden nee Morrison

1851-1927

Alice Sarah was born in Ramsgate, Kent to David Morrison and Ann Collins.

David Morrison was born in Scotland in 1813 and met and married Ann Collins in Faversham in 1839.  In 1841 they were still living in Faversham with four children and by the time of the  1851 census had moved to St Lawrence, Ramsgate, where he was a shoemaker. They were living at 28 Castle Cottages.St Lawrence, Ramsgate and were still at 9 Castle Cottages in 1881. Ann died in 1884 and David, sadly, went into the Minster Workhouse and died there in 1891. I have just found that Castle Cottages is very close to Chatham House School in Ramsgate where both of my brothers went.

They attended St Lawrence Church which is the oldest building in Thanet apart from Minster Abbey and it has an interesting history.

Alice Florence